I started this post on the 20th and it is now the 24th. Sorry.
Connor and I survived. We made it to my parent's house in Macon at about 10:00 Thursday night. As expected, the solo travel experience with a 15 month old was not boring. Brian was hosting a very important business dinner in Grand Rapids Thursday evening, and we flew out of the Flint, MI airport (much much cheaper), so in order for him to get back in time to set up his dinner, Connor and I arrived at the airport 3 hours before our flight. For those unfamiliar with the Flint airport, there are only 8 gates....very small. And in the mid-afternoon, no one is there....seriously, no one. Connor spent those 3 hours pushing me around in a wheelchair, laughing at his reflection in the bathroom mirror, playing with his toys (truck, hammer and book), eating snacks, and basically just running around. I had to keep him away from plants, all the goods in the concession/magazine/etc. area, cleaning supplies, and all the other non-baby-proof stuff in an airport terminal. I was exhausted before we even boarded the plane....and it turned out to be delayed 30 minutes too...
Keeping a 15 month old little boy in your "lap" is not the easiest task. I really think this has to be the most difficult age to travel. He wants to explore everything and his attention span isn't long enough to keep interest in a dvd or any other extended time source of entertainment. For 1 hour and 45 minutes I was on high alert trying to make sure that Connor did not disrupt an otherwise pleasant flight for the other passengers on board. He never cried or screamed, but his activity level was enough to completely drain me. In my lap the vast majority of the time, I had to make sure he wasn't pushing on the seat in front of us with his feet, grabbing the headrest (to jump on the spare seat next to us, of course), pressing the light or call buttons overhead, putting his arms/legs/head into the aisle during the beverage service, etc., etc., etc...
It wasn't until the last 15 minutes of the flight that a nice man sitting behind us started making faces at Connor. Of course he was captivated and they played peek-a-boo for the remainder of the flight. Why couldn't others have done the same throughout the flight?!
I know that flying in general can be a stressful experience, but the next time you are feeling stressed out over your travels, just imagine it with a young, male, button-pushing, toddler. :) Don't get me wrong....Connor did amazing, I was just a nervous wreck. I now find flying solo almost even relaxing.
Anyway, I was more than ready to hand-off baby boy to his grandparents and great-grandmother waiting for us at the airport. We got Chick-fil-A (YAY!!!) on the way home and I continued to be amazed that Connor was still functioning on his single 45 minute, car nap. He dozed in the car right before we got to the house and that was enough to supercharge him for another hour of exploration at my parent's.
You'd think the "fun" was about over when he was finally in the crib at about 11:00. Nope. Within 10 minutes, Connor had escaped the crib. I heard a thud (not a fall, just the landing I guess) and he met me at the door of the kid's room. He was basically losing it. Huge day, strange bed....I don't blame him, but I didn't know what to do. He is NOT used to sleeping with me, but I couldn't just put him back in the crib knowing that he could just get out again. After a rough night in the bed with me (with one 45 minute stretch of inexplicable screaming), he finally got rested. I went downstairs around 8:30 Friday morning. To our shock and amazement, Connor got up at 9:30. He woke up in my bed, got out of the bed, came downstairs, and greeted us.....all by himself and without a cry or hesitation. I couldn't believe it!!
Since then, my dad was able to raise the rails of the crib another 3-4 inches, so he can't escape. (I was panicking about where he was going to nap?!?) He has grown more and more used to his surroundings, Precious (my parent's very old Cocker Spaniel) included and we are all doing very well.
Brian left mid-morning on Sunday (after attending the OSU v. Michigan game in Ann Arbor on Saturday with his brothers and friend) and arrived at my parent's house in Macon at 11:47 pm. I think he said it took him 12.5 hours. Not too bad. We are glad to be all together again and will be driving back to Michigan Saturday night...hoping Connor will sleep and we will avoid horrific holiday traffic.
We sure are having a fun time and we look forward to the rest of the family to arrive later today (Tuesday) and tomorrow for some fun, family, Thanksgiving fun.